as if they are owed something…..I find them as objectifying, at times, as the bbw dudebros. Noone gets a medal. It is not something horrendous to overcome and being cute doesnt excuse objectifying behaviour, as subtle as it may seem to some.
My body is not a hurdle. It is not a triumph if you overcome anything to like it . I am not going to clap for you because you are being decent. Like any shape or size you want and be lovely to those people! I am tired of men being treated like knights for it. It just makes me feel like it is unusual for us to be liked…sigh….